YOU WANT ME TO MODEL IN AN EROTIC PROJECT?
As a nude model, I offer the possibility to model for erotic imagery such as porn art. I genuinely enjoy making them when the connection, setting and trust are right. That said, it's never a must—everything depends on mutual comfort. That is important because in the past I have had experiences where I failed to set boundaries by not communicating upfront and not reacting adequately when things didn't feel right. I hold no bad feelings towards anyone; it is part of my journey, and this text is an honest step towards sharing my boundaries with you and setting clear expectations from the start.
In the world of erotic photography, the boundaries between what you normally expect from sexuality and someone's actual sexual state often blur. For example, if I get an erection, spontaneously or at your request for a photo, it can create the impression that I'm sexually aroused and open to anything, even outside the shoot. But that's not the case. I'm on set to create erotic art together with you, and that's the only reason I look 'excited'.
Erotic work is truly a technical challenge for me that goes beyond simply posing. It’s about creating a convincingly real sexual state, even when there’s actually no genuine sexual energy. Imagine trying to stay hard while at the same time thinking about how your pose looks in the photo and following the photographer’s instructions. That’s not easy at all. That’s why I create a mental space where I can retreat safely, focus deeply, and build and maintain my sexual energy throughout the entire shoot. And yes, that means I regularly need to masturbate between shots if you want me to stay hard :-)
It's important to respect that mental space. So avoid comments, jokes, or sarcasm that could disrupt the flow or make things uncomfortable. Questions like 'Do you need a hand?', 'Are you enjoying this?', 'It's getting really hot in here', or 'Can I take my clothes off too?' can break the trust and focus we're building together, so better not to say them. Does that mean it has to be silent on set? Absolutely not! Warm encouragement like 'Keep going', 'Beautiful, hold that feeling', 'Take your time, it looks fantastic' or 'You're doing great' actually creates a nice atmosphere and makes the process easier. We get the best results when we take enough time to build trust and calm, so let's plan for that.
Everything we do together happens through open communication and mutual consent. I’m generally easygoing and don’t mind being touched for artistic reasons like adjusting poses, oiling, painting, or making tweaks for aesthetic purposes. But please always ask before you do—it's a small gesture but it shows a lot of respect.
Posing naked makes me vulnerable. I really appreciate it when you as the photographer embrace that vulnerability too by trusting the process and the boundaries I set. It's that shared openness that creates something beautiful and powerful.
Each shoot is a unique opportunity for me to explore, rediscover myself, and connect with you and especially the viewer, both artistically and personally. I prefer to work with photographers who understand and respect this delicate balance, creating together a safe, inspiring space where we can both express ourselves creatively and enjoy the moment.
